Sunday, September 4, 2016

Saint of the Gutters


"Saint of the Gutters"

*A poem inspired by a photograph in honor of the beatification of Mother Teresa of Calcutta, September 4, 2016
By Katherine Harris Szerdy

More inspiring than the most eloquent sermon
Are the tireless feet of the Saint of the gutters, 

Soles, never supported by Sketchers or Asics, leathery,  thickly calloused from decades spent ministering to the poorest of the poor on unnamed streets in Calcutta, 

Toes, arthritic, gnarled from years of gripping the edges of thin-soled sandals, 
Nails, yellowed, ridged, never painted or pedicured, always pointing in the direction of the Lord's work, 

Heels, rough,  scarred, never--no not once--elevated by Prada or Marcus Jacobs, 
dig determinedly into dirt parched by drought, as she stoops to meet the gaze of a tiny, frail girl, abandoned and homeless,
Or scoop out of a trench the skeleton of a man, naked, skin caked with sun-baked excrement. 

Those tiny feet, 
Feet of a fisherman, 
   of a fisher of men,
   of a saint, 

A sight so hideous yet radiant with the holiness of one whose compassion oozed through her pores
Like the perfume of angels

A sight that could reform the hardest heart, 
Heal the most deep seated pain
Mend the most broken marriage
Shatter the most stubborn stronghold 
Of addiction, of shame, of fear and of hate.

Tiny ordinary feet of a woman who did everything with extraordinary love
Tiny feet belonging to a saint
In a blue and white sari
With well-worn sandals, 
This Saint of the Gutters
who left shoes too large to fill
By any man
And an example for 
Every man to emulate.

Monday, April 4, 2016

Stuffed: the Psychological Profile of an Extreme Hoarder

By Katherine Harris Szerdy

She who grew up during the Great Depression
and the Second World War,
In the shadow of the Diamond Alkali's smokestacks, 
   Ash raining down upon rooftops
In a village with a church and a bar on every block
 
She who grew up within
stone skipping distance of Fairport Beach 
On the southern shores of Lake Erie,
In a loving home with two parents, 
Four brothers, a sister and a dog
 
She who hid behind a perpetual smile,
who attended church every Sunday,
a teetotaler whose drink of choice was
a cup of Tetley with milk
like her English father
 
She who was the obedient one, 
who never cursed or smoked,
the third daughter but the first to survive
Diphtheria,
who struggled in school while her
siblings excelled
 
She who died a little inside
the Christmas Eve her brother,
so handsome the girls in town swooned as he passed,
a veteran of the war and the first to
graduate from college,
the hero of the family,
fell asleep at the wheel,
killing his fiancé and himself
 
She who married a 
     handsome
         hot-tempered 
              hard working 
                   honorably discharged
           Army Sergeant who rarely missed a day
at the Diamond
 
She who died a little more inside
the day her mother, her protector,
went into cardiac arrest following a simple
surgical procedure at the age of 52
 
She who was a meticulous housekeeper and
loved wedding white and
         milk glass and
    blonde furniture and
         Jack and Jackie Kennedy
    and bed dolls dressed like brides and southern belles 
 
She became a hoarder,
First filling up one house
So they bought a bigger house
-- she filled that one too
    With knicknacks and
    Magazines and
    Avon cosmetics and ...
Eventually the stuff, like an amorphous
creature with seven pairs of arms 
pushed away those who loved her,
replaced those who loved her  
 
Now she is gone.
A white graduation tassel,
A copy of Little Women inscribed by her mother,
A broken Timex stopped at 4:47
A divorce decree
and a mound of bills are
All that remain of a life of 81 years,
All that remain of 8 decades plus one.
 
Was it the Great Depression
Or the deaths of dear ones
Or a doting parent afraid of losing another daughter
Or a chemical imbalance
Or the devil himself 
That made stuff
Her drug of choice, 
That fed the dark creature
With a voracious appetite, 
Was it the persona or the shadow
    Chance or choice,
    Nature or nurture 
that pushed who she was created to be
over the edge,
    down
        down
            down
                  into the delusion that
we are happy by what we acquire
not by who we appreciate.

Monday, March 14, 2016

The Diamond

My father, Stanley James Harris, gave 29 years of his life to the Diamond Shamrock, fka the Diamond Alkali, until 1976 when they rolled up the bankroll and headed south, leaving in its wake hundreds without employment, an environment rippled with toxic waste, tens of thousands with lung and genetic disorders, and a burden on local, state, and federal taxpayers to clean the lake and scrub the land.  My mother, grandparents, uncles, neighbors, fathers of classmates worked there, too.  Nearly everyone in my hometown was related to or knew someone who worked there. 
 Not a fun place, but this is what our Dads, Uncles, Grandpas, Mothers,, Neighbors-- hard working Americans-- did.  The aftermath of World War II ushered in an era where farmers struggled to make a living; while industry offered financial security and the opportunity of a fresh start in the suburbs. For us Baby Boomers, this is part of our story--a tie that binds--and a tie tack as proof.

Wednesday, March 2, 2016

Winter Clings


By Katherine Harris Szerdy

Single solitary snowflakes drop 
        pause 
                  slide 
A lovely dance paced against the backdrop of
a Pastel sunset.
A scattering of gentle silent spinners
float playfully like downy milkweed
Flit here, flit there 
     Sassy
          Syncopated
as though they had wings and conscious intent,
Lighting upon the fence post until
A slight breeze resumes their choreography
     Down
         Down
                Down
         to the dried leaf of last year's hosta,
Gliding to the ground like a downy feather of a baby sparrow nesting in the birdhouse I built with Papa last spring and
Nailed to the trunk of the old oak
Whose bark, if you stare at it intently
Resembles an old Iroquois chief winking
As winter clings but springtime claims
Its territory
Its time.

Copyright 2016 by Katherine Harris Szerdy

Saturday, November 21, 2015

David W. Shaner--a Remembrance

David W. Shaner--a Remembrance  

I loved him. He had a tremendous impact on my life--not sure I would have turned out as well without him. He was a WWII veteran of the Pacific theater, a gentleman, a class act, a perfectionist, and a strict disciplinarian. He was the most beloved...and hated...teacher at Riverside. I took every course he taught and had to learn how to knit and play chess to play Anne Frank's mother, sang and danced my way through Mame and Dolly, and was Maria in The Sound of Music. We remained close throughout the rest of his life--when my family and I moved to Orlando in '86, he bought a winter home in the Villages and we got together often. In 2005, I was one of the last to speak with him in his final days and was very surprised to have been one of 8 former students named in his will. I was asked to write a remembrance of DWS which was published in the program for the dedication of the auditorium in his name. 

He was my "Professor Higgins"--he took this scrawny teenage girl from an alcoholic home and opened my eyes and my heart to the realization that I could achieve my dreams. He held the bar far higher than we thought we could ever reach --and when we did, we gained the confidence and the character to reach further, jump higher, and we took that confidence out into the world. In his final speech to us before opening night of The Sound of Music in 1973, he said, "The perfect way is the only way, and the only way is the perfect way."  It was that philosophy which caused many to hate him, all of us to fear him, but it was also the magic that transformed many of our lives!  His impact on my life is immeasurable. 

Friday, November 20, 2015

Thx

I have issues with the word "Thanks" aka "Thanx."  
It's curt, brusque, insincere,
leaving the recipient in the wake of the speaker's speedy exit. 
It says, "I'm not grateful enough to give you more than a syllable or an extra second of my time."  
It's the vocabulary of entitlement. 

The phrase, "Thank you," is a bit better. 
It requires a turn of the cheek, 
     a moment of eye contact, 
     an extra breath to acknowledge the giver of the gift for their 
      Thought    effort     time. 

But best of all--"I am so grateful for you"..."I appreciate you"
Feels like a warm embrace, 
heart to heart engagement 
of both parties.

Sunday, November 15, 2015

Dear Cleveland Plain Dealer,

Dear Senior Editor of the Plain Dealer, You are disappointing two of your loyal readers more and more these days. Tell me please--to what story is this headline attached?  
No story. 
Sheer speculation. 
No substantiation. 
Seriously?  
In the last year, it has become evident that you rely more on image than text to communicate the news, or should I say,  your spin on events impacting our community, our country, the globe. 
Gone are the days when assumptions and hype were taboo. 
Now, your editorial decisions are based on what headline and image will sell more papers than on the depth and accuracy of reporting. 
Even the reading level has dropped two levels. 
Your paper used to be written at a 7th-grade reading level--
now 5th grade--
and that's the classified section!  
Full page color photos have replaced the excellent writing of former columnists and beat reporters, many of whom were Pulitzer Prize winners!  
And your Customer Service department, well, don't get me started!!!  
Quite honestly, it's only because of 
Crankshaft and 
Bizarro and 
John Funk and 
Ted Crow and 
a sentimental attachment to newsprint and ink that keeps us subscribing.  
Sincerely yours... 
Katherine Szerdy & Steven Szerdy, 
loyal subscribers